Boy and Girl Friendship || Girls Friendship || Boys Friendship || Bestie || Girl and Boy team || Female bestie || Male bestie

ENGLISH TRANSLATION (अंग्रेजी अनुवाद )

हिंदी में पढ़ने के लिए ब्लॉग में नीचे जाए (To read in hindi go below in the blog)

Hello and welcome to my another blog, this time blog is about a unique topic that is "Friendship of a boy and a girl". In the past the friendship of a boy and girl is consider as a wrong thing and society never accept it especially in India. But as our country is progressing people start taking it normal and thus we are seeing that day by day it is going to be a very common thing.A girl and boy friendship has its own beauty in it because it not only about friendship but this will also teach you to respect a boy or a girl irrespective of gender.

Will a friendship between a boy and girl destroy our morals and make the society more unsafe?

The people who don't believe in the friendship of a boy and girl give very wiered reason to avoid it and those reasons are "anyone of them will fall in love for other one" or "it will make the life of girl unsafe" but will it be true? In my view both reasons are not true because in the friendship of a boy and girl they both care for each other, attract for each other, like to spend time with each other but never come in relationship with each other and talking about the second reason I will only say that it will not make it unsafe for girls infact it will create a more safe environment for the girls because when you remain in touch with people of opposite gender you will get to know about the problems of each other genders, which will increase the respect in your mind for opposite gender and thus ensure safety of girls and boys both.

Now if we talk about our morals then it is right that our culture don't teach us to do friendship with opposite gender but we must have to do little change in our culture with time and development as change is very important for the survival of human being. Being a friend of opposite gender is not something that we are inspired with western culture but this is a little change we must have to do in our culture.

Why did a boy needs a female bestie?

Now you may be thinking why did a boy needs a girl best friend so let me made you clear about it there are many thing that you can't able to discuss with your male friends, for example you will not prefer to share your family pressure problems with your male friend because he is going with the same thing too and can't able to help you but instead of it you can share it with your female best friend because she can help you to overcome this and also gave you some motivation. In this way there are many problems which girl can solve faster then a boy. Except all these things we all know in terms of study girls are better then boys thus having a female best friend will going to help you a lot in studies too and never let your mind get divert from studies.

Why did a girl need male best friend?

Now you may be thinking that why did a girl need male best friend so the biggest and best reason is the privacy of their secrets. Sometime a girl wants to share something with someone to relax his mind it may be her problems or something else but will she prefer to reveal this secret to his girl best friend? Absolutely never and ever because everyone knows the fact that girl can't be able to keep things secret for a long time instead of it boys can keep anything secret for a very long time or even lifetime too. Also a girl always needs a boy when she wants to share something but don't want to get judged over it. Also again there are many problems of girls, which a boy can solve faster then his female best friends.

How did friendship between a boy and girl help to reduce gender inequality?

Many people gave different reasons to avoid friendship between boy and a girl by saying that they are two different human being but as I have mentioned in my precious blogs too that a boy and a girl are different only with structure of body after all they both are human being. When you have a male BFF or Female BFF you understand the perspectives of opposite gender on different genders. You will going to learn about the problems your opposite gender will face in his/her day to day life which ultimately developed a great respect in your heart for her/him. And we all know that once you start respecting your opposite gender it will end the gender diversities.

So in the end I end up saying "Don't judge or think negative about a friendship between a boy and a girl because it is rhe greatest gift for both of them in the entire life"

If you have experienced a friendship between boy and a girl then let me know some of your things you came to learn from each other and your views about the friendship of boy and girl in the comment box.

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College Life || College Life exception vs reality || College life reality || College life experience || Stress in College life || Time management in college life || College life tips || Ragging || Anti Ragging laws

ENGLISH TRANSLATION (अंग्रेजी अनुवाद )

हिंदी में पढ़ने के लिए ब्लॉग में नीचे जाए (To read in hindi go below in the blog)

Hello and a warm welcome to my another blog this time I will talk about the college life.

As you all know this is the season of new admission in colleges as class 12th result of CBSE and all other boards has released by the respective boards. Many students who have passed the class 12th are now thinking of taking admission in colleges so this blog is useful for all those students.

What is college Life?

The first question which arrives in everyone mind is what is college life. So if I have to describe college life in one sentence I will just say "It is the most remarkable And lovable time of individual life". This is the time where you not only learn the things which are present in your books but you will learn many new skills which are necessary to live the life.

How is college life differ from School life?

Now as all we have passed the school level and now going in college so we always think that how our life is going to change in college so let us understand it point wise:

1. The first difference you observe in your college life is timings as you have to go to school on a specific time and are allowed to comeback on specific the but in colleges you don't have any such pressure thus you have to manage your time by itself.
2. The another main difference in college and school life is that in school you met with students of local areas and same culture but in college you met students from different states and culture.
3. The third point of difference is that you don't have any pressure of study from your teachers as happens in school life.
4. The fourth point of difference is your dress code, like schools you don't have pressure of wearing specific dress in colleges
5. And last but not the least you have to respect your seniors in the college which is not much important in schools

What is ragging in colleges and is there any law against ragging?

Now The biggest fear among students while going to colleges is about ragging however our government has made laws against ragging but even then in some big colleges where staff don't pay much attention on students, seniors get out of control and start ragging their juniors. But you don't worry about that as there are laws to stop ragging

First of all let us understand what is ragging. In simple words ragging is a process in which seniors forces their juniors to do any work which is not a part of course.

If someone do ragging with you then you can file an FIR in the nearest police station but before that I will suggest you to talk to your teachers or any staff of college and if they don't took any action then go to police station.

The following IPC section can be used to file an FIR against ragging:

• 294 – Obscene acts and songs
• 323 – punishment for voluntarily causing hurt
• 324 – voluntarily causing hurt by dangerous weapon or means
• 325 – punishment for voluntarily causing grievous hurt
• 326 – voluntarily causing grievous hurt by dangerous weapon
• 339 – Wrongful Restraint
• 340 – Wrongful Confinement
• 341 – Punishment for Wrongful Restraint
• 342 – Punishment for Wrongful Confinement
• 506 – Punishment for culpable homicide not amounting to murder

The student who involved in doing ragging will be punished with a jail of 2 years or more.

However in recent times these practice are reduced to a great extent and there are rarely such incident observe in colleges.

Stress in college life and how can one get relief from stress?

On reading the line college life is very stressful you may think how did college life becomes stressful even after a lot of freedom, yes you are right there are lot of freedom but students start taking stress because they don't able to shift to college environment like in schools teachers guide us what to do and what not but in college you have to decide by yourself what to do or what not, also your stress get increased because of the Irregularities in eating and sleeping as there is no fixed time of lunch in college as in case of school, you have to arrange your time by itself

Now let us discuss some of the ways to get away from stress

1. Managing your time efficiently (in the later part of this blog I will share you methods of managing your time)
2. Talk with your friends and classmates whenever you get time between lectures
3. If you find some situation uncontrollable then just leave it on your luck, just control the controllable
4. If you are away from your parents talk to them regularly and share your problems with them as they can help you to solve your problems
5. If you are facing the stress of study or syllabus then you can simply get relief from it by dong less syllabus because it will not affect your marks much.
6. You can also plan to visit a nearby famous place or cafe with your friends weekly or with any interval you found suitable to relax your mind.
7. And last but not the least is a pro fact that you can eat chocolates because chocolates will help you to get relief from stress faster

How to manage time in college life?

Now as we discuss earlier that college students face stress because they don't able to manage their time efficiently in college life so here are the some tips to manage your time in college life:-

1. Don't make time table and just decide what work I have to in the whole day without taking care of time taken to complete it.
2. Try to improve your efficiency of work, I know it is not going to be easy but with time you will improve your efficiency.
3. College exams don't demand hard work instead of it they demand smart work so don't go for 100% syllabus but go for 60-70% syllabus only but do it complete.
4. Try to identify your distraction which waste your time and stop using it. However it does not mean you just do study but when you study try to stay away from these distraction.
5. Do one work at a time, don't try to be multi tasker just tackle one thing at a time because if you do more then one thing it will waste a lot of time in shifting from one work to another
6. And last but not the least tackle small problems first for example you can complete the syllabus of those books which are easy and short first and complete the syllabus of those which are hard or big later on.

To sum we can say that college life is full of joy and it will teach you a lot of new skills thus one can say that it is the best part of ones life, if you use your college life to get success and improve yourself you will definitely going to get success otherwise we don't have any shortage of students who destroyed their career by spending time in useless activities in college life.

If you like my blogs share it with all your friends so that they also get to know about the college life and yes don't forget to share your views about the college life in the comment section below.

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LAPTOP PROTEST || LAPTOP PROTEST IN KERLA 2022

ENGLISH TRANSLATION (अंग्रेजी अनुवाद )

हिंदी में पढ़ने के लिए ब्लॉग में नीचे जाए (To read in hindi go below in the blog)

 Hello everyone,

Here in this post I am going to tell you about the LAPTOP PROTEST of engineering students of kerala.

What is Laptop Protest?

First of all let us understand what is laptop protest. Actually it is a protest started by engineering student of Thiruvananthapuram against the moral policing. In this protest students of engineering college sit on the laps of opposite gender to clap back at the moral policies.

Why they do Laptop Protest?

According to TOI report it happens on wednesday when local peoples of Sreekaryam broke the benches at the waiting shed to avoid sitting of girls and boys together.

Acoording to students they use this shed to wait for their buses and in this girls and boys sit on the same place but the local people of a nearby society take it in a negative way, they also do negative comments on seeing us sitting together. But when the locals break the benches in the shed area they are forced to do something. Students say that they also went to police for their help but they don't took any action and thus they took this step.

One of the student Nandana says "Our photo was not a fight against the residents, but there is a need to educate them to view students without the barrier of gender”

How Laptop Protest got the support?

According to students, when they posted the picture of each other sitting on the laps of opposite gender, the pictures got viral and lot of people from facebook comes in the support for their step. They are surprised when they get the support from their seniors too.

Not only by the students of colleges and facebook they also get the support from the SFI and DYFI too. However they received negative comments too when they posted this picture but they believed that these things are OK when majority and justice is on their side.

Is laptop protest right or wrong?

Now a general question which arrives in everyone mind is that whether this kind of protest are right or wrong. Actually in this situation no one is wrong but the situation is wrong. Actually the circumstances in which our elder generation grew up and the circumstances our generation grew up are completely different and this type of problems or behaviour of elders occur due to generation gap but in my view our elder generation must have to understand this and must try to change their attitude and thinking towards boys and girls. I know every one can't able to change it. But they can at least change their attitude toward the students. In this modern world any work can be completed only when both boys and girls work together to complete it we must have to understand that "Boys and girls are not different, they differ just by body structure after all they both are human being"

Will the need of these protest came in present days?

These types of protest and views always force us to think whether the time has come to do such protest and improve the thinking of society.Let us now clarify it in details:-

We all know that our elders grew up in the circumstances when girls don't do office work but the new generation grew up in circumstances where they saw girls and boys doing work together in offices and at every place due to which the new generation don't take working of opposite gender together as a awkward situation and thus their mind is developed to work together with opposite gender and thus I think if we want to see a developed and powerful India then we must have to change our attitude toward working together or staying together of opposite gender.

So to sum up all we can say that the answer of question whether laptop protest is right or wrong depend on the thinking and attitude of every common man. Please share your views with us by commenting below and keep reading my blogs regularly if you want to know more about the "The developed India"

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